You Don’t Need More Time. You Need Clearer Priorities.

Most leaders I coach aren’t struggling because they don’t know how to manage a calendar.

They’re struggling because too many things are competing for their attention.

Meetings fill the day.

Email and messages fill the spaces between meetings.

Someone needs a decision.

Something unexpected comes up.

By the end of the day, they’ve been busy for eight or ten hours, but the work that mattered most is still waiting.

The answer usually isn’t another productivity tool.

It’s getting clearer about what deserves your time.

The bottom line

If you want to manage your time better:

• Choose your top priorities. Identify no more than five things that deserve most of your time and attention.

• Audit how you collaborate. Pay attention to the time going to meetings, decisions, working sessions, and information sharing.

• Make meetings more purposeful. Know the decision or outcome you need before the meeting starts.

• Review your calendar and remove what no longer matters. Recurring doesn’t automatically mean necessary.

• Protect your well-being outside of work. Relationships, interests, movement, and time away from work help you sustain how you lead.

None of these ideas is complicated. The harder part is looking at your actual calendar and being willing to make different choices.

1. Choose your top priorities

Most leaders don’t have a shortage of priorities. They have too many.

When I ask a client what’s most important right now, I’ll sometimes hear seven, eight, even ten things. At that point, we’re no longer talking about priorities. We’re talking about a list.

Try narrowing it to three to five.

What needs your attention in this season?

What are you responsible for that only you can do?

Where will your time have the greatest impact?

Then look at your calendar.

If you say developing your team is a priority, where is that happening?

If strategic thinking matters, where is the time for it?

If your health matters, does your calendar reflect that?

This is one of the reasons I like the thinking behind ⁠The ONE Thing: Doing Less to Achieve More. Focus requires deciding what matters most before everything else starts competing for your attention.

2. Audit how you collaborate

A significant amount of a leader’s time is spent working with other people.

That’s part of leadership. The question is whether all of that collaboration is necessary.

Look at your week.

How much time are you spending making decisions?

How much is spent solving problems with others?

How much is spent receiving or sharing information?

And how much of that requires you?

This is particularly important as leaders become more senior. Being included in everything can feel necessary. Sometimes it’s even flattering.

But your presence can also create dependency.

If your team consistently needs you in the room to move something forward, that may be worth examining.

Delegating more isn’t only about getting time back. It also gives other people room to think, decide, and grow.

3. Make meetings more purposeful

Before your next meeting, ask one question:

What needs to be different when this meeting ends?

Maybe a decision needs to be made.

Maybe a problem needs to be solved.

Maybe you need ideas.

Maybe people need information.

Those are different purposes and they don’t necessarily require the same meeting.

A lot of meeting time gets lost because the purpose isn’t clear. People arrive, provide updates, discuss a few things, and leave without knowing what happens next.

You can change that with a little preparation.

Be clear about why you’re meeting. Invite the people who need to be there. Share information beforehand when possible. Leave knowing who owns what next.

And occasionally ask whether you need the meeting at all.

I’ve written before about the meeting overload I hear from leaders all the time. Often, the problem isn’t simply too many meetings. It’s that we’re using the wrong meeting for the work that needs to happen.

In ⁠Too Many Meetings, Or Just the Wrong Ones?, I break down Patrick Lencioni’s four different meeting types and offer a simple meeting audit you can use with your own calendar.

4. Review your calendar and remove what no longer matters

Calendars accumulate things.

A weekly meeting gets added for a project. The project changes, but the meeting stays.

You join a committee because you were needed six months ago. No one revisits whether you still need to be there.

You keep accepting a responsibility because you’ve always handled it.

Over time, those decisions add up.

A calendar audit can help.

Look at the last two weeks and ask:

What could I stop?

What could I shorten?

What could I delegate?

What could happen less frequently?

What could someone else own?

This is also where the ability to negotiate priorities matters.

When something new gets added, ask where it belongs relative to everything already on your plate.

“If this needs to move up, what can move back?”

That’s a reasonable leadership conversation.

I wrote more about this in ⁠How to Say No Without Burning Bridges (or Your Career).

Sometimes you don’t need to say no. You need to make the tradeoff visible.

5. Protect your well-being outside of work

Time management conversations tend to focus on getting more done.

I think we need to talk about the other side too.

What are you making time for outside of work?

Relationships.

Movement.

Friends.

Faith.

Hobbies.

Being outside.

Doing something because you enjoy it, not because you’re trying to accomplish something.

These things can disappear quickly when work gets demanding. And for high performers, work will almost always give you a reason to stay a little longer.

There will be another email.

Another task.

Another problem you could solve.

At some point, you have to decide that the workday is finished.

That’s why I’m a believer in having some kind of end-of-day practice. Nothing elaborate. Capture what still needs your attention, decide what matters tomorrow, and close the day.

I wrote more about that in ⁠End-of-Workday Rituals: The Key to Reclaiming Your Evenings.

Try this for 15 minutes

Open your calendar and look at the last two weeks.

Don’t look at what you intended to do. Look at what you actually did.

Then ask yourself:

• What received more time than it deserved?

• What mattered but didn’t get enough time?

• Which meetings could change or disappear?

• What am I doing that someone else could own?

• Where do I need uninterrupted time?

• What am I making room for outside of work?

Then choose one thing to change this week.

You don’t have to redesign your entire calendar.

A few intentional changes can create more room for the work, people, and parts of your life that matter most.

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